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The Edge Series: Useless Ring Girls V Pedestal Women V Models

 Our beloved cheerleaders, pep squads, models, and ring girls. They're there to boost morale, boost confidence, and get everyone pumped up for whatever sport or activity is taking place. These positions are usually held by females and tend to come alongside male dominated sports.  There's been long debates of the utilization of these roles and the treatment of the participants. One example, professional football cheerleaders requesting to get paid during their practices, like the football players, and not just the days they work.   Another concern, are their roles exhibitions of athleticism and talent, or exclusively objectification of women? In reality, probably both.  Despite reservations from modest conservative church ladies, many woman proudly promenade their freedoms to express themselves and perform whatever roles of their choosing.  Being objectified is not the issue to them, it's the goal. Many are now online making millions simply for be...

You Want A Donut?

Offering a donut is extending an olive branch. Some time ago I offered a cop a donut. Despite my clear frustrations, and his response, I have to wonder: He still could have said, "Yes," and laughed it off. It is considered as some form of disrespect. Everyone is entitled to their own perspective on the matter. Can anyone laugh? Clearly not, so I'll do it for everyone. Over this past weekend I've been blessed with two exceptional donut experiences. One from Dunkin and one from Church. Over my brief stint here on Earth, I've discovered that the art of donut making takes much patience and practice. Not anyone can just make a donut. Sure, there's a whole system in place and plenty of people worldwide can make them. It's still a work of art. Such variety. Such a joy and treat. I don't know why anyone wouldn't be happy to be offered a donut. After these few past months, sitting back and chomping into a blueberry donut has proved to be a remedy.  As a chi...

"Stonehearst Asylum" Film Review

 "It's you who possesses me..." I won't spoil the entire film. Just one detail.  Our leading lady Eliza makes mention to the leading male, Edward " You don't belong here, " cautioning him to leave. He of course refused and remained. Since we're aware this film is in part, a romance,  the leading roles have an attraction to one another. It's at the near end where Eliza exclaims that she's not some possession to be exchanged. He interjects with how she is wrong. It is her that possesses him.  Who's more tormented? This film depicts the human condition and how we cope with our mentally unstable.  Romance is everywhere, and the market is saturated with it. This one stands out simply because we're already focused on the mind of a mentally unwell woman and her recovery process. Her perspective met with another point of view, potentially giving her the most liberating information of her life. Assuming for so long she was nothing more than a ...

Useless Obscure Review That Serves No Purpose: F O U R

Burger King's  "King Fry"  Can you count how on your hands the amount of potato variations and dishes there are? Innumerable. Such as opinions on the iconic french fry. Firm, Structured, like golden bricks ready to get stacked on to build a golden fry castle. This is why this fry is King.  Aside from the firm structure, what I love most about these fries are the warm filling, like mini baked potato fluff tucked away nicely in between its firm structure. Also, if you're mad, chomp on one of these. Insides oozing out between your teeth is the perfect distraction. Definitely would pair with chili cheese and jalapeno poppers.

(Perspective: Biblical) "For do I now persuade men, or God?"

Galatians 1:10: For do I now persuade men or God? Or do I seek to please men? For if I still please men, I would not be a bondservant of Christ.   No lie, Paul's writings are kinda hard to figure out sometimes.  As always, get full context:   Galatians 1:6-10 .  Concerns over false teachers and them being accursed. How does one actually handle that? For another post. Okay, but How does one know "what pleases" Christ? What does a Christian truly look like since they're still sinners and hypocrites like most people?   Since people are failing you   Consider:  What   did  Christ  actually  do? For one, He did break many customs and offended people ( Matthew 18:6-7   Matthew 21:12-13 ). So, there's a start. Jesus also hung out with the people no one else would have:  Sinners , a  Woman at the well . . .  Jesus Openly stated to people their sins were forgiven .  Jesus  ...

Fresno Grizzlies (work in progress photo album)

Fresno Grizzlies:  Some shots I took at the game back in July.  A True Joy being out there. It was sincerely heartwarming to see so many families, so many different walks of life truly enjoying their lives and their family time at the game. I'll post another update with more photos and captions. Work in progress . . . 

(Perspective) Biblical: Feeling alone In A Crowded Room

Don't ask me how I feel, ask me what I know, I often say. But when is it the time to fully rely on feelings? I made a personal conviction then essentially broke it. The hypocrite in me. The truth needs to be told. Where does one go to confess their sins or turn to for accountability in this world of independence? There are support groups for everything. If you recall Fight Club QCTHUHB (quietly chuckles to herself under her breath...) Support groups for everything. So why is it that I feel I cannot be content with personal confession without corporate confession?  I once argued that you didn't need to confess your sins or wrong doings to anyone  but to God alone. It's a true statement, but in a way limited. We can tell them to one another. In some faith groups you confess them to a priest or father.  Why does any of this matter?      Saves a lot of time . . .  and heartache [W}rip the bandage off. Just lay it all out, all the problems. Let it go....

Hidden in Plain Sight (Response to New York Times Article The A.S.L. Interpretation of ‘WAP’ Was TikTok Gold. It’s Also a Problem.)

I'll just jump right into it. The very last paragraph in this  article    is the most crucial part  "After this viral moment, Black and deaf content creators hope to see the spotlight on themselves next time, and at least have this be an opportunity for people to learn more about accessibility. 'I want people to think of what the deaf community goes through every day,' Ms. Sutton said. 'Learn A.S.L. to provide access, not so you can do a song that goes viral.'"   Everything else after this statement is fluff. I'd still highly suggest you read it to get the full context. Wonderfully written and well expressed and respectfully excluding the crude lyrics. That in itself is the problem that's only been best expressed through American Sign Language. This song is not an Anthem Call promoting this sex work. The ASL interpreter is relaying a message that this is a possible cry for help. Read the lyrics to WAP at your own risk. I won't poison your eyes....

(Perspective) Why Sympathize with deadbeat dads?

  ***Disclaimer***I do not condone this behavior. This is simply a new perspective on a difficult issue. Not trying to make excuses for absent fathers (or mothers who fall into this). Plus, this is perspective. Perhaps we should allow for the other side to be considered, if only for one's personal healing, and not so much for the other person. How could anyone sympathize with a man walking out like that or not being present? Well, let us go back to the battle of the sexes and motherhood.  The mother is the first who experiences or feels that connection to the couple's baby. After birth, there is still a strong neurological connection. Her hormones are heightened, sense of smell, sense of awareness, and other notable changes. The mother has the natural advantage to quickly bond with the child. If you were to take this thought even further, you'd realize that women are already born with all the ovum she'll have in her entire life. The body decides when to release an egg. ...

(Perspective) the Genesis of man and woman

The Lord created man and animals prior to making female. ( Genesis 2: 18-22 ) Should females feel the order of our position in creation makes animals a higher priority? The truth is animals will always remain animals. If they were to be human they would be. We're impressed with what dogs can do, but this is given human training for more extensive tactical work. They're unable to build their own hospitals. But still, God created them and protected them in the Arc when the world was flooded. He saved the animals, so they are of importance to Him. So why did God create man, then animal, then Eve? A theory could be, if this was the intent from the beginning, man was preparing a safe place of comfort for his ideal mate. Everything is already set up ready for her. Not quite sure what happened in the garden of Eden. Some could possibly speculate that since everything was given to Adam and Eve, they took what was in the garden for granted because they didn't have to work for anythi...

The Edge Series: worst case scenario to moral decline

Natural moral decline as a result of low emotional state makes nations more impressionable to attack and destructive ideas becoming an action leading to habit and addiction ultimately resulting in full enslavement.  People won't have a choice. Their bodies will be essentially programmed.  The ultimate end result is sexually frustrated people unable to satiate their sexual appetite resulting in them purging on weak and vulnerable people. The example of the concubine who was killed then body cut up. People loathe that I focus so much on the violence. Someone has to. We will hear more stories worldwide in the future. Consider the movie The Book of Eli with Denzel Washington. Wake up now.  That's worst case scenario. Currently we're seeing a rise in female rapists, fourth wave feminists, (more to come on this) They pride themselves in being fully sexually liberated and the world sees this as only positive. Women equal to Men. This can never be. Equal in  Worth and VALUE ...

The Edge Series: low Emotional state Impacting P r o g r e s s

In Follow up to the Merry Christmas Sex Worker :  Allow Us to Continue on This Journey to Further Understand the State of Mind so Many Find Themselves in During This Current Era   I hope you can take time to read the Merry Christmas Sex Worker post, and If you're still not able to understand why it can be a struggle for many to find full sobriety, or the mental capacity to fight for their lives, or their children's please continue reading: ***Trigger Warning*** Severely Low Emotional State Given the context of the women discussed in the Christmas blog post , their lives consisted of consistent fear. Lack of Safety, Lack of Privacy, Lack of proper food to repair the brain and body. We're seeing that today Isolation and Mind Numbing scenery In addition to details of assault many don't talk about: The assault happens in the brain. The assailant is now ingrained in person's mind as priority. The mind is overtaken at times by *triggers* that can create mental or physical...

The Edge Series: Merry Christmas to the Sex Worker

Preparing for the holidays a bit early, aren't we? Why so early and always before Halloween? What's your obsession with trusting Christmas on everyone? I'm well aware of the strong opinion of those skeptics out there. I've upset many, but if you'll entertain me with your time for just a bit longer you'll soon see why the push for this and sense of urgency. It's going to get scary, plus I'm tired of being told to be quiet about saying "Merry Christmas." For starters,  I'd like to wish all the sex workers an early Merry Christmas. Sometimes they're forgotten. Yes, I'm sending a shout out to all the proud or humble, free or enslaved, sex workers. To people, men, women, and children who are knowingly and unknowingly being used for sex, those being lied to, enslaved with traps. It's not "what you do" but "who you are, naturally," sometimes. Note, this always must stem back to original intent of male and female rel...

The Edge Series: Brace Yourself

If you're scratching your head trying to figure out what is going on with the world, you're going to have to pay quick and close attention. No more games. The unity needs to start now. We're entering a time of serious moral decline, serious and rapid descent. there needs to be a quick remedy and answers now. call the action: try to understand where many people are coming from and why the world is what it is today. 

The Edge Series: It's Coming: This is N o t F I C T I O N

  NOT FICTION SERIES   Audience: Christians and Ultra Right Conservatives who are unprepared. Intro: How you can really help and truly empathize with people who are battling worldly, vice issues: controlled substance abuse, adult entertainment industry, pro-choice movement. Stay connected: This is How you can truly wrap your mind around why it's such a struggle to get people sober and off the streets.  Please follow me and listen to the stories of so many caught in the storm, and are currently drowning. That is truly the only way best to describe the current state so many are in. I understand so much more and can report back why the populace is feeling destitute, hopeless, unmotivated and feeling lost. The time is now to start talking about some of these issues. Save all lives. Pre-Born, and especially Mothers, Young Women, Raise up Strong Protecting Men and Fathers NOW One Survivor's Story